Public proposal


Private proposal

Public proposal
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Private proposal
I want to propose to my girlfriend. Should I do it in public or in private?
by freebeer in Lifestyle on Jul 31, 2013
Well, it depends on your girlfriend. Maybe she would be flattered if you did it in front of all the people you know. Or a bunch of strangers? Maybe you’d even get a huge round of applause like in the movies. Bottom-line: you should know your own girlfriend before you propose.
Agree, you should know her very well, otherwise it may happen something like this
If you are the type of person who like to take risks, then do it. Public proposal is too dramatic for any girl not to burst into tears. If the feeling is mutual, then what a way to express your love towards her. That only means you're not ashamed to tell the whole world about it. As long as the intention is honest, public proposal is the way to go. It happens only once in a lifetime.
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Definitely private! A proposal is an intimate moment and proposing publicly you put your partner in a situation he/she may not wish to be in.
Private things should be expressed privately. And there are tons of reasons NOT to propose publicly:
- It may fail and it may become an embarrassing experience for both
- It's expensive
- Your girl may share the same thought as me lol
It depends on your girlfriend. If I was a girl, I would probably prefer a private proposal. It is supposed to be an intimate moment. Why share it with complete strangers? Also, think about what would happen if she said no to you in public. Or even worse, she said yes against her will just because she couldn't say no in public. It might be a good way to coerce a woman to marry you, but it's not really fair....
Private, because if she says no you will be in a hard situation. Plus she might say yes, but it's a fake yes because of all the people that are looking. That will turn your whole future upside down at one moment.
I propose my wife while she was in bath, maybe not so romantic, but certainly private enough.
Depends on her, really. If you do it in public, she will have an exclusive topic with her friends for years to come :) But if you do it in private, regarding every little thing she likes, it can also sweep her of her feet. I'm personally more for private proposals (I'm too shy for public exposure :P)
Public proposals are not only risky but highly embarrassing. It is an intimate moment and should be kept private. Announcements after that are fair game.
Well, it depends very much on your girlfriend and of course on you. If she likes being in the center of attention, not to shy and you are a very popular guy you may risk it, but you do not want this to happen or this or ... you got the point.
It is much more beautifull when there is only you and the love of your life. You can do whatever you or she like without people judging around you.
Good luck man. You'll need it !
Just joking with you my friend, Just be yourself.
My best friends husband proposed to her on a billboard. She is a very shy and private person, so she wasn't very happy about it. It's been 4 years ago but up til now she's sad that in the end everyone was more interested in how great of an idea he had and how brave it was to do it, than in the pure fact of their engagement... It turned out more of an ego boost for him than a great memory for her.
When my fiance asked me to marry him it was just the two of us sunbathing on a lazy day by the lake. Nothing big, nothing flashy. And I wouldn't change it for the world.
Part of the reason for that, no doubt, is the subject matter to which , relates � sex.
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